How to get over jealousy and insecurities?

Life is not about comparing ourselves to others. Your self-esteem should come from being a nice person, taking care of your family, your career and/or whatever other things also make you happy in life. The way celebrities and models look is not the norm of what most people look like. You should also feel good about yourself because you are trying to lose the baby weight instead of just sitting around not caring at all, but the most important thing is to lose weight and stay fit for HEALTH, not appearances. And, you might want to sit down and seriously explain to your husband how bad his wandering eye and comments are making you feel. Make it a serious heart-to-heart conversation not at the time when it is happening, but at a time when you are both relaxed and have time to discuss. Also, it seems that the more people complain about their appearance, the less other people want to hear about it--be a happy, outgoing person with a lot of interests/hobbies, etc. in your life and you'll be so much fun to be around your husband won't these other women and you won't be so depressed. Good luck!